who or what you choose to attend to in a given moment, a tuesday night, a hard week, a crisis. priority is about circumstance and choice, and it moves around. it's often confused with hierarchy, but they're different: you can give a relationship your full attention this week without it structurally outranking the others, and you can hold no formal hierarchy and still make clear choices about where you show up.
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