find your relational archetype.
Twelve ways of moving through love. One of them is probably yours. The quiz names it, describes it, and quietly tells you something about yourself you already half-knew.
an archetype.
One of twelve. Named, described, with its own growth edges honestly called out. Not a label — a mirror.
your eleven-dimension profile.
How you tend to show up across compersion, connection pace, hierarchy, attraction pattern, community role, and seven other dimensions that together describe a relational signature.
a card worth sharing.
If you want to post it, we make that easy. If you don't, nothing gets shared unless you choose to.
yours emerges from how you score across all eleven dimensions.
Seventy-five questions, give or take. Takes about twenty minutes if you move through it. You can pause anywhere — we remember where you were.
The first ten dimensions are the core. Everyone answers these. They describe how you structure, pace, and show up in plural relationships.
There's a new eleventh dimension on attraction pattern — how attraction arrives for you. This is where patterns like demisexuality or sapiosexuality get named without requiring you to label yourself.
Then there are two optional sections. One explores power dynamics and intensity in intimate contexts. One explores lifestyle practices — swinging, social visibility, discretion. You can skip either or both. Your core archetype doesn't depend on them.
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core
Compersion, structure, hierarchy, nesting, pace, communication, jealousy, solo spectrum, community role, chosen family.
01
attraction pattern
How attraction arrives for you — including demisexual, sapio-leaning, responsive, and graded patterns.
03
kink overlay
Power dynamics, roles, and intensity. Opt-in — skipping won't affect your archetype.
02
lifestyle overlay
Swinging spectrum and social discretion. Also opt-in.
private by default
Your results are private by default. We don't share anything until you explicitly choose to.
real opt-ins
The opt-in sections are real opt-ins. If you skip them, nothing about you in those categories gets recorded or surfaced anywhere.
remove anytime
You can remove your results from your account. When you do, we clear the answers too — not just the summary.
not sold, not shared
We use quiz data to show you your archetype and suggest community spaces. That's it. We don't sell it. We don't share it with anyone. When dating launches later, your data becomes part of how compatibility works — but only if you want it to.
You don't need to know whether you're poly, ENM, queer, questioning, or settled to take this. The quiz is built for people who love in the plural — and for the larger group of people quietly wondering whether they always have.
If the word “archetype” sounds too serious: it isn't. Some of the archetypes are funny. Some land so exactly you might laugh. It's meant to be read, shared, and occasionally argued with.
ready?
about twenty minutes. save and resume anytime.